Saturday, July 16, 2016

Tatum Jay Hatch


My heart is so full right now! Words can't describe the amount of love I feel for my husband, my kids and my new sweet baby boy. I decided to hurry and blog all about Tatum's arrival while it is still fresh in my memory!

On Sunday, July 10th, around 11:00 at night I started feeling some contractions. This wasn't too unusual for me because I experienced Braxton Hicks almost every day for a month prior to his arrival. I went to bed and ended up waking back up at about 2:30 to some more contractions. I decided to time the contractions, at this point they were about 10 minutes apart.

With Titan my water broke, once at the hospital I had him within 5 hours. With Laikynn I went to the hospital with contractions and within 3 hours I had her. My doctor said that labor usually gets faster with each child and since my labors were so fast in the past, he told me I should basically run to the hospital the second I started feeling them. I believe the words he used to describe this labor was it was going to be a "slip-in-slide".  This made me really nervous! The last thing I wanted was to have the baby in the car ride to the hospital.

I decided my contractions weren't close enough apart to head to the hospital and that I should try to wait it out a little bit longer. I tried to go back to sleep but was too anxious to really get any. I woke back up at 4:30 and started timing the contractions again. They were now about 4-5 minutes apart. I was nervous to wait any longer but I was also nervous that I wasn't in labor. We had to call over a family member to stay with the kids and I really didn't want to wake someone up in the middle of the night just to have it be false labor. At 5:00 I woke up Devan and told him I was pretty sure I was in labor, but I didn't know if my contractions were intense enough to head to the hospital. He didn't want to chance it so called someone over and left to the hospital.



We checked in the hospital at about 5:30. When you check in without your water breaking they usually like to watch you for an hour before admitting you into the hospital. They hooked me up to machines to monitor the contractions and checked to see that I was only dilated to a 3. This was a little discouraging because I had been dilated to a 3 for the past 2 weeks, so I hadn't really made any changes there.

After an hour the came back in to check me again, although my contractions were getting stronger and closer together I was still not dilated anymore so they decided to call my doctor to see if I should stay or go. Since he knew my history of fast labors he wanted me to stay so I was admitted and moved over to a room in Labor and Delivery.







My doctor was actually so worried that my labor would be quick that he had the nurses bump me up on the schedule to get an epidural before others that were already scheduled for C-Sections. Once I got the epidural he came in and broke my water. He was sure this would speed up labor and that the baby would be here before we knew it!!

Well, we were all wrong. 6 and 1/2 hours went by and I was only dilated to a 6. The doctor didn't want to cause stress on the baby so he decided to give me a low dose of Pitocin. Then he made me lay there with a huge, peanut looking ball in-between my legs to encourage the baby to make his way down. After 20 minutes the nurse came back in and I was dilated to a 10 and the baby was on his way! She was actually too nervous to move me at all without the doctor being there because she didn't want me to have him!

I pushed 3 times, for a total of maybe 5 minutes and Tatum was here!





Tatum has been a long awaited baby. Devan and I tried for 2 and 1/2 years before being blessed with this pregnancy. It caused so much hurt inside me to think that there was a chance that I may not ever have another baby. I remember being so stressed over not getting pregnant, it got to a point where it even caused conflict between Devan and I. After being on clomid for a year and a failed IUI, I even started to convince myself that I would be content with only having two kids, even though what I wanted more than anything to grow our family.

You will never hear me complain about having to wake up late at night for feedings, for not getting enough sleep, for not having a minute to myself, for not having my body where I want it to be, for anything really because I feel so incredibly blessed to be Tatum's mommy. I have so much love for this little boy. He is absolutely perfect in every way! I can not wait to watch him grow, although I wish it wouldn't go by so fast.

After I had Tatum they placed him on my chest for a minute then took him to get weighed. The nurses and Devan told me to look at the scale, oddly enough, Tatum weighed in at 7 lbs 11oz on 7/11!

After they checked him they gave him back to me. The hospital started a new thing where the baby has skin to skin contact with the mom for 3 hours following delivery (before the bath and everything). It was such an amazing bonding experience for Devan, Tatum and myself to not have to worry about Tatum getting taken away by nurses or family members coming in to see him. We just got to soak in such an amazing experience with our new little boy.

After that they moved us to the new room, we meet Devan's parents and the kids. The hospital also did a new thing where they bath the baby in your room instead of being taken away so the mom can experience it as well. Since our kids were there they also go to watch as Tatum had his first bath.




The first day/night went great. We were able to have family and close friends come to see Tatum. Tatum was nursing really well (I think the skin to skin contact really encouraged this) and he was sleeping good at night. We kept him in our room the first two nights.











We planned on being discharged on Wednesday morning but on Tuesday night things took a slight turn. Tatum's blood sugar started dropping. When they tested him for this they also tested him for Jaundice, which they found out he had. They came in our room in the middle of the night on Tuesday and explained everything. They took him away to put him under the lights. They would bring him back in every 3 hours so he could nurse for 30 minutes but because it was such a short amount of time to nurse he was unable to eat good enough so we had to start supplementing formula to help get his blood sugar levels normal, which would help with the Jaundice as well. They said they would watch him the rest of the next day to see if he got any better, if he got better I would be able to take him home with me Wednesday night but if he didn't he would have to stay another night.


Wednesday afternoon they checked him again, his blood sugar was still going up and down and his Jaundice was still at the same level (which was good that it wasn't getting worse, but not at a point where they could take him off the lights). They told us Tatum needed to stay another night. I had already been discharged that morning so they let us rent a hospital room (as if it were like a hotel room) so that I could still nurse him. They also explained to us that if his levels weren't better in the morning they would have to transfer him to the NICU. This made me so nervous! So that night the nurse and I really focused on getting him to wake up to get a good feeding from me as well as making sure he got some formula. I ended up pumping and feeding him a bottle so we could get food in him quicker during our 30 minute window.

The next morning we woke up and Tatum tested great on everything! The doctor was actually surprised his levels were so good! We were finally able to go home after 4 days in the hospital!



We've been home a couple days now and things are going great! My milk came in so we were able to get Tatum off of formula and back nursing. He has been sleeping great at night, he sleeps so good that I am still having to wake him up for feedings. Laikynn and Titan have been adjusting so well! Laikynn is completely obsessed with her brother. She is consistently washing her hands and running in the room asking to touch him, she likes to hold him too but her favorite is rubbing his head, ha! Titan is telling everyone his brother is boring because all he does is sleep, but he loves asking questions and is so curious! He is right next to me every time Tatum wakes up so he can watch his every move. They are both such great helpers and are more than willing to help mommy with little tasks!


We are all beyond blessed to have this little guy!!

Thursday, July 7, 2016

We Picked a Name!



Baby Hatch will be named... Tatum Jay Hatch! <3

It may seem a little last minute deciding on a name but we have actually had this named picked out for awhile now. About a week after we found out it was a boy I heard the name Tatum and fell in love! I told Devan the name and he loved it as well! But it was still so early on in my pregnancy that I think we both thought there might be a chance that another name would come up that we liked better, however, that never happened. There were some other names we liked as well, but we always like the name Tatum over them!

For awhile I was back and forth on the name because it is gender neutral. When I told Devan about this concern he told me his name was actually gender neutral as well. That got me thinking, and the more I thought about different gender neutral names the more I realized it really isn't that big of an issue! There are so many names out there that work well for either gender!

We had the middle name picked out since we found out we were pregnant with Laikynn. (Because I was sure Laikynn was going to be a boy.) I love Devan's middle name and I wanted to have Devan be able to give his first boy part of his name, Jay! Well, turns out Laikynn was a girl so we decided to do a name that rhymed with Jay, which is where we got Kay! Then we saved the name Jay for our first boy together.  

As far as nicknames go I love Tate, but he could even go by TJ because of his middle name! I think that nicknames just come naturally so we will see if we end up calling him something else for short! I remember when we were naming Laikynn I had no idea what we would call her for short, I thought possibly Kynn because I actually when by 'Kin' a lot growing up. But somehow she got the nickname Lakers and I love it! With the name Titan, I figured he would go by Ty when I was pregnant and I was right! But I prefer Ty Ty, although I think he may out grow it soon, ha!

We are just so excited to meet little Tatum Jay!

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Adventure


What an adventure this pregnancy has been! I had my 37 week appointment and am still dilated at a 3! Taking it easy over the past week seemed to have helped!

My rib pain has been getting worse and worse. I have a high tolerance for pain and it got to a point where I didn't think it was just the baby getting in my ribs. The pain was also spreading to my back/shoulder. And Tylenol didn't help at all. So I did a little research and talked with my doctor, come to find out it is more than likely my gallbladder. Since I am so far along my doctor said a surgeon would want to wait until after the baby comes so to try to tough it out until he comes. (Easier said then done, ha!) I told Devan last night that I was so excited for the baby to come because then I might be able to get a little more sleep (hoping the baby coming out will help with the pain), then I just laughed at myself!! Who wishes for a newborn so they can get more sleep??? Oh me! Because the pain right now is that bad!! BOO!

Now that I am 37 weeks I am hoping to be a little more active to see if I can get this baby to come on his own! This morning I woke up full of energy and was able to get tons of stuff done around the house and even mowed the lawn!! Then my energy ran out about half way through the day and now I'm blogging, AKA taking it easy again, ha! Joys of pregnancy!





Thursday, June 23, 2016

Getting Induced


I posted on IG the other day that I was going to get induced at 39 weeks and I had quite a few comments from people (who obviously know way better than the mom carrying the baby & my doctor) telling me not to get induced. Most of the time I just ignore these comments but I decided to talk a little about my decision!

Right now my due date is July 27th, however, the last ultra sound I did put my due date at July 22nd. My doctor only wanted to change my due date (again) if it was more than a week off so we have kept it at July 27th. I would be getting induced a week earlier than this date, so really only 2 days earlier than the date the baby was measuring at (about 39 weeks & 5 days). The baby is considered full term at 37 weeks so by waiting until then the baby will be perfectly developed.

Honestly, I am not planning on getting induced though! Laikynn came at 37 weeks and Titan came at 38 weeks so I am guessing this baby will come at least a week early anyways! If he doesn't then I can make the final call then on if I want to get induced or not. I am actually pretty scared to get induced! I feel like my labor and delivery will be so much easier if I wait until the baby comes on his own so that is what I am crossing my fingers will happen! I have heard both good and bad things about getting induced so I will just keep getting information up until the day I have to make that decision. I will weigh in a lot of information including if I am dilated at all or not by then! 

The main reasoning for getting induced is so that Titan can be there when I deliver. Titan leaves to go with his dad for a few weeks for summer break so if I wait until my due date he would not be there to come to the hospital to see his brother. (I know what your thinking, why don't I just ask his dad if he could come over for a few hours to see his new brother once he is born.... ha, oh if you only knew who I was dealing with.) Titan has been so excited to finally have a brother that I don't want him to miss out on such a special day! So I want to do everything I can to make sure he is there!

Also, My babies are big! Devan was born at over 10lbs & I was born at over 9lbs! With laikynn being over 7lbs at 37 weeks, I know this baby will be a big one if I go to 40 weeks! Ouch!

So there you have it concerned mamas. But a little advice for in the future, I will almost guarantee that any mom you are giving your lovely advice to has already thought about it and is making the best decision for her and her sweet baby(ies). Let's all start supporting each other rather than trying to tear each other down! We are all just trying our best to be the best for our little ones!

Oh and if I let Titan bring his scooter with him to photo shoots I get the perfect smiles! Who knew!


Friday, June 17, 2016

10 Fun Facts


I am now a little over 34 weeks! I wish I could say that time was flying by but it's actually going SO slow! I think that it is mainly because we tried for another baby for two and a half years, so in reality I been waiting a little over three years for this baby to get here! Where with Laikynn I got pregnant so easily & Titan was a surprise that didn't really even hit me for the first few months. So little Baby Hatch is a long awaited gift that we can not wait to snuggle!!

For this post I decided to do some Fun Facts about this pregnancy. I think it will be fun to read back on this post one day and read the little details and differences in my pregnancies!

1. I was so sick in the beginning I was convinced I was having twins. (I was wrong.)
2. When I found out there was only 1 baby I was convinced it was a girl, because I have heard you get sicker with a girl. (I was wrong, again.)
3. We knew we would have the baby's middle name be Jay since before Laikynn was even born. Jay is Devan's middle name.
4. Because I didn't know the date of my last period we have been going off measurements to calculate the baby's due date. So far I have been given 4 different due dates!
5. I don't crave sweets when I am pregnant, normally I have thee biggest sweet tooth!
6. As of right now I have gained 23 pounds and currently weighing more than I ever have in my life!! (I gained 29 pounds with Laikynn but I started off at a lower weight).
7. My stomach went from a 24 inch waist to a 37 inch waist!! Crazy to think my stomach has stretch 13 inches!!!
8. No new stretch marks so far, crossing my fingers it stays that way!
9. I have extreme rib pain right now and barley get any sleep at night.
10. When we asked the kids what we should name the baby, Laikynn suggested 'Flynn Rider' (from Tangled). 
Bonus- I'm 99.9% sure I have a name picked out for the baby and have had it for several months now. Devan loves the name but wants to wait to see if the baby fits the name when he gets here.