Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Kiki Lu Diaper Bag & Floral Tee


I can't get over how cute this darling Diaper Bag from Kiki Lu is! I first saw it on another mom at my daughter's dance class and I knew I had to have it! The backpack style makes it easy to be hands free, which we all know I need with 3 kids running around (well 2 kids running, 1 consistently holding HA)! But you can also change the straps around if you prefer not to wear it as a backpack! It has tons of pockets for everything baby you can think of! & comes in such cute colors! I decided to go with mint because I love everything mint and it's such a fun color pop!

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Enjoy!


And let's talk about this cute Floral Tee from Brickyard Buffalo! It isn't on sale yet, but it will be this Saturday & Sunday! So consider this your sneak peek and reminder to grab it before they are gone! Brickyard Buffalo is a fun little Daily Deal site that features boutique items on SALE! I love shopping there!




Tuesday, August 2, 2016

Pregnancy Fitness.

I had baby #3 a little over 3 weeks ago. Monday was the 3 week mark to be exact and Monday was my first day back at the gym and lifting heavy since having my little boy. I honestly felt good enough to head back to the gym about a week after the baby was born but I decided to wait an extra week to get nursing under control and on a schedule of some kind, then I did a week of just walking/light weights. I am excited to share my fitness journey with all of you and to show you how I plan on loosing the baby weight/getting back in shape. I decided before I start on those posts I would first post about my pregnancy fitness journey!

Here are a few things I have learned over my past 3 pregnancies.

1. List to your body & talk with your doctor. I was constantly asking my doctor questions about the Do's & Don't's in pregnancy. Most of which he responded with 'Listen to your body". If an exercise is uncomfortable, stop doing it. If you are craving a certain food, eat it (in moderation of course). If you are tired or nauseous, take a break. The list goes on, but I think you understand where I am going with this. You know your body best and you know what is best for your baby.

2. Try to get in shape prior to getting pregnant. I was in the best shape of my life when I found out I was pregnant with baby #3! It has only been three weeks and I can already see the benefits from being in shape. Not only that but it is easier to stick with your clean eating habits/ exercise routines if you are already doing them. Once you become pregnant it is even harder to find the motivation so starting before you get pregnant seems to help tremendously!

3. Water, water, water! There are so many benefits to water while pregnant! It helps with everything from delivery to stretch marks so make sure you are always drinking plenty of water! Even in that first trimester when it is hard to keep anything down!

4. Eating clean! I think the MOST important reason to eat clean while pregnant is so that your growing baby gets the best nutrition possible. But there are so many benefits on top of that. You will have more energy and feel better during your pregnancy! And it's a big added bonus that you will most likely bounce back faster!

5. Working out- it's hard to find motivation when pregnant! Trust me, I know! But adding exercise to your routine while pregnant helps with delivery, ensure you don't gain extra weight & helps you feel better (because we all know we have those bad days when pregnant). About 2 weeks before I had Tatum I was in the gym and an older man approached me telling me that he was an OBGYN for years and he was so happy to see a pregnant girl days away from my due date still working out! He began to tell me all about the benefits I would see from sticking to it!






As far as competing goes, I definitely want to get back on stage! I love competing and can't wait to do it again and to hopefully get my Pro Card soon! My goal was to be back on a National Stage within a year! There is a National Show in Vegas every July that (I competed in it last year) and I would love to compete in that again! In order to compete in a National Show I have to place Top 3 at a local show, so I would have to compete before that show. I decided to contact my coaches, Ryan & Taylor Benson, to see what they thought! They have bigger plans for me and want to see me on a stage much sooner than that! I would love to get on stage as soon as I am ready, but I am also soaking up having a Newborn and 2 young kids as well as running a business! So if it fits in my schedule despite my other priorities then I will go for it! I will do much better about posting on here, IG (@mckinli) and Snapchat (@mckinlih) so you can follow my journey & hopefully start or continue your own!

Saturday, July 16, 2016

Tatum Jay Hatch


My heart is so full right now! Words can't describe the amount of love I feel for my husband, my kids and my new sweet baby boy. I decided to hurry and blog all about Tatum's arrival while it is still fresh in my memory!

On Sunday, July 10th, around 11:00 at night I started feeling some contractions. This wasn't too unusual for me because I experienced Braxton Hicks almost every day for a month prior to his arrival. I went to bed and ended up waking back up at about 2:30 to some more contractions. I decided to time the contractions, at this point they were about 10 minutes apart.

With Titan my water broke, once at the hospital I had him within 5 hours. With Laikynn I went to the hospital with contractions and within 3 hours I had her. My doctor said that labor usually gets faster with each child and since my labors were so fast in the past, he told me I should basically run to the hospital the second I started feeling them. I believe the words he used to describe this labor was it was going to be a "slip-in-slide".  This made me really nervous! The last thing I wanted was to have the baby in the car ride to the hospital.

I decided my contractions weren't close enough apart to head to the hospital and that I should try to wait it out a little bit longer. I tried to go back to sleep but was too anxious to really get any. I woke back up at 4:30 and started timing the contractions again. They were now about 4-5 minutes apart. I was nervous to wait any longer but I was also nervous that I wasn't in labor. We had to call over a family member to stay with the kids and I really didn't want to wake someone up in the middle of the night just to have it be false labor. At 5:00 I woke up Devan and told him I was pretty sure I was in labor, but I didn't know if my contractions were intense enough to head to the hospital. He didn't want to chance it so called someone over and left to the hospital.



We checked in the hospital at about 5:30. When you check in without your water breaking they usually like to watch you for an hour before admitting you into the hospital. They hooked me up to machines to monitor the contractions and checked to see that I was only dilated to a 3. This was a little discouraging because I had been dilated to a 3 for the past 2 weeks, so I hadn't really made any changes there.

After an hour the came back in to check me again, although my contractions were getting stronger and closer together I was still not dilated anymore so they decided to call my doctor to see if I should stay or go. Since he knew my history of fast labors he wanted me to stay so I was admitted and moved over to a room in Labor and Delivery.







My doctor was actually so worried that my labor would be quick that he had the nurses bump me up on the schedule to get an epidural before others that were already scheduled for C-Sections. Once I got the epidural he came in and broke my water. He was sure this would speed up labor and that the baby would be here before we knew it!!

Well, we were all wrong. 6 and 1/2 hours went by and I was only dilated to a 6. The doctor didn't want to cause stress on the baby so he decided to give me a low dose of Pitocin. Then he made me lay there with a huge, peanut looking ball in-between my legs to encourage the baby to make his way down. After 20 minutes the nurse came back in and I was dilated to a 10 and the baby was on his way! She was actually too nervous to move me at all without the doctor being there because she didn't want me to have him!

I pushed 3 times, for a total of maybe 5 minutes and Tatum was here!





Tatum has been a long awaited baby. Devan and I tried for 2 and 1/2 years before being blessed with this pregnancy. It caused so much hurt inside me to think that there was a chance that I may not ever have another baby. I remember being so stressed over not getting pregnant, it got to a point where it even caused conflict between Devan and I. After being on clomid for a year and a failed IUI, I even started to convince myself that I would be content with only having two kids, even though what I wanted more than anything to grow our family.

You will never hear me complain about having to wake up late at night for feedings, for not getting enough sleep, for not having a minute to myself, for not having my body where I want it to be, for anything really because I feel so incredibly blessed to be Tatum's mommy. I have so much love for this little boy. He is absolutely perfect in every way! I can not wait to watch him grow, although I wish it wouldn't go by so fast.

After I had Tatum they placed him on my chest for a minute then took him to get weighed. The nurses and Devan told me to look at the scale, oddly enough, Tatum weighed in at 7 lbs 11oz on 7/11!

After they checked him they gave him back to me. The hospital started a new thing where the baby has skin to skin contact with the mom for 3 hours following delivery (before the bath and everything). It was such an amazing bonding experience for Devan, Tatum and myself to not have to worry about Tatum getting taken away by nurses or family members coming in to see him. We just got to soak in such an amazing experience with our new little boy.

After that they moved us to the new room, we meet Devan's parents and the kids. The hospital also did a new thing where they bath the baby in your room instead of being taken away so the mom can experience it as well. Since our kids were there they also go to watch as Tatum had his first bath.




The first day/night went great. We were able to have family and close friends come to see Tatum. Tatum was nursing really well (I think the skin to skin contact really encouraged this) and he was sleeping good at night. We kept him in our room the first two nights.











We planned on being discharged on Wednesday morning but on Tuesday night things took a slight turn. Tatum's blood sugar started dropping. When they tested him for this they also tested him for Jaundice, which they found out he had. They came in our room in the middle of the night on Tuesday and explained everything. They took him away to put him under the lights. They would bring him back in every 3 hours so he could nurse for 30 minutes but because it was such a short amount of time to nurse he was unable to eat good enough so we had to start supplementing formula to help get his blood sugar levels normal, which would help with the Jaundice as well. They said they would watch him the rest of the next day to see if he got any better, if he got better I would be able to take him home with me Wednesday night but if he didn't he would have to stay another night.


Wednesday afternoon they checked him again, his blood sugar was still going up and down and his Jaundice was still at the same level (which was good that it wasn't getting worse, but not at a point where they could take him off the lights). They told us Tatum needed to stay another night. I had already been discharged that morning so they let us rent a hospital room (as if it were like a hotel room) so that I could still nurse him. They also explained to us that if his levels weren't better in the morning they would have to transfer him to the NICU. This made me so nervous! So that night the nurse and I really focused on getting him to wake up to get a good feeding from me as well as making sure he got some formula. I ended up pumping and feeding him a bottle so we could get food in him quicker during our 30 minute window.

The next morning we woke up and Tatum tested great on everything! The doctor was actually surprised his levels were so good! We were finally able to go home after 4 days in the hospital!



We've been home a couple days now and things are going great! My milk came in so we were able to get Tatum off of formula and back nursing. He has been sleeping great at night, he sleeps so good that I am still having to wake him up for feedings. Laikynn and Titan have been adjusting so well! Laikynn is completely obsessed with her brother. She is consistently washing her hands and running in the room asking to touch him, she likes to hold him too but her favorite is rubbing his head, ha! Titan is telling everyone his brother is boring because all he does is sleep, but he loves asking questions and is so curious! He is right next to me every time Tatum wakes up so he can watch his every move. They are both such great helpers and are more than willing to help mommy with little tasks!


We are all beyond blessed to have this little guy!!

Thursday, July 7, 2016

We Picked a Name!



Baby Hatch will be named... Tatum Jay Hatch! <3

It may seem a little last minute deciding on a name but we have actually had this named picked out for awhile now. About a week after we found out it was a boy I heard the name Tatum and fell in love! I told Devan the name and he loved it as well! But it was still so early on in my pregnancy that I think we both thought there might be a chance that another name would come up that we liked better, however, that never happened. There were some other names we liked as well, but we always like the name Tatum over them!

For awhile I was back and forth on the name because it is gender neutral. When I told Devan about this concern he told me his name was actually gender neutral as well. That got me thinking, and the more I thought about different gender neutral names the more I realized it really isn't that big of an issue! There are so many names out there that work well for either gender!

We had the middle name picked out since we found out we were pregnant with Laikynn. (Because I was sure Laikynn was going to be a boy.) I love Devan's middle name and I wanted to have Devan be able to give his first boy part of his name, Jay! Well, turns out Laikynn was a girl so we decided to do a name that rhymed with Jay, which is where we got Kay! Then we saved the name Jay for our first boy together.  

As far as nicknames go I love Tate, but he could even go by TJ because of his middle name! I think that nicknames just come naturally so we will see if we end up calling him something else for short! I remember when we were naming Laikynn I had no idea what we would call her for short, I thought possibly Kynn because I actually when by 'Kin' a lot growing up. But somehow she got the nickname Lakers and I love it! With the name Titan, I figured he would go by Ty when I was pregnant and I was right! But I prefer Ty Ty, although I think he may out grow it soon, ha!

We are just so excited to meet little Tatum Jay!

Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Adventure


What an adventure this pregnancy has been! I had my 37 week appointment and am still dilated at a 3! Taking it easy over the past week seemed to have helped!

My rib pain has been getting worse and worse. I have a high tolerance for pain and it got to a point where I didn't think it was just the baby getting in my ribs. The pain was also spreading to my back/shoulder. And Tylenol didn't help at all. So I did a little research and talked with my doctor, come to find out it is more than likely my gallbladder. Since I am so far along my doctor said a surgeon would want to wait until after the baby comes so to try to tough it out until he comes. (Easier said then done, ha!) I told Devan last night that I was so excited for the baby to come because then I might be able to get a little more sleep (hoping the baby coming out will help with the pain), then I just laughed at myself!! Who wishes for a newborn so they can get more sleep??? Oh me! Because the pain right now is that bad!! BOO!

Now that I am 37 weeks I am hoping to be a little more active to see if I can get this baby to come on his own! This morning I woke up full of energy and was able to get tons of stuff done around the house and even mowed the lawn!! Then my energy ran out about half way through the day and now I'm blogging, AKA taking it easy again, ha! Joys of pregnancy!